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Why do people tend to ignore your messages in a group chat?

Did you ever feel ignored in your group chat when you ask something important and no one giving you the answer?

Nizar Maulana
5 min readJul 4, 2020

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meme about how frustrating when you ask something in your group and no one is respond you

I feel you guys! It’s also happened to me, and it sucks not to get the answer to things that you really want to know. I was so annoyed and decided to find the reason why this happens. It turns out that there is a psychological explanation of this phenomenon.

It’s called the “Bystander Effect.”

What on earth is the Bystander Effect?

The bystander effect, or bystander apathy, is a social psychological phenomenon in which individuals are less likely to offer help to a victim when other people are present.

a bunch of people that only watch the victim but no one is help because they think other people will do
The example of the bystander effect

We may think that when someone gets into trouble, and there is a large crowd among him/her, he/she will get much help too. However, when your surrounding is such a large crowd, it will decrease the…

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Nizar Maulana
Nizar Maulana

Written by Nizar Maulana

I turn complex ideas into engaging narratives. Writing in Bahasa Indonesia & English

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